"I rang the headmaster and asked when it was and whether Ryan could go and was told no, he couldn't." Jan, aged 34, a supervisor for Meals Direct, said she was so shocked she went to the school to see the headmaster. "I told him it wasn't fair on Ryan to see other kids getting ready for a party which he couldn't go to," she said.
"The headmaster told me it was because Ryan's behaviour is unpredictable and they didn't have the staff to give him one-to-one supervision. "Ryan would have enjoyed the party and if there were any problems, I was just a phone call away and could have been there."
She said on the day of the party, last Wednesday, Ryan was very upset and that night didn't sleep very well. Ryan has been at the school since November and goes for three-and-a-half hours a day. He has one-to-one teaching through an educational funding programme.
"His ADH means he can be unpredictable and gets very angry if he cannot handle a situation," she said. "The last few months
he has been getting worse and now this will make him sad and feel he's not wanted at the school."
Headteacher Alan Blake said the school had done everything it could to support Ryan with his special needs requirements.
"Ryan has quite severe behavioural needs and although he attended the school Christmas lunch, he has not yet improved enough to attend all school activities or to join in the less structured school party," he said. "We continue to work closely with Ryan and his parents and apologise for any misunderstanding that may have arisen."
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